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It's just a no-win situation."The fact is, of course, the children are the responsibility of the parents, and regardless of the girlfriend's interest, her point of view is extraneous. "It is frustrating when you have an opinion about a situation or dialogue," argues Fiona. She was worried they might think I was their mother."Obsessively protective of her children, she has banned Tom from feeding or bathing them. This, in turn, infuriates Diana, who feels he is being unnecessarily manipulated."I ended up really disliking her, and getting angry with Tom for being so powerless.
He went to see her, to say that they had to sort things out, that it was putting a strain on our relationship, and she burst into tears Tom has now ended up feeling guilty about everyone. He kept telling me they were really odd children, very shy, but then it turned out their mother didn't want me to see them. "Because I've known her since she was a baby, we have a very understated friendship which I treasure," she says. "It's not too intense, we don't miss each other and she's always known who her Mum is. But, it's exciting to think that when Rufus and I have kids, they'll have a blood bond with her. Something I don't have."So, the new boyfriend turns out to be a father and seems fairly adept at the job.